Sunday, November 25, 2007

How to Ask a Girl Out if She Is Already Dating

When you meet a girl that you enjoy talking to, and feel compatible with, it is only natural to want to ask her out. When you feel that she also is comfortable with you as well, and you sense vibes between you go for it. Ask her to dinner, or to a movie. If you know that she is dating someone, find out if that dating is serious, or just casual dating
1. Flirt with her. Start off light, you don't want to come on too strong or else you will look needy and desperate. You want to come off as confident and humorous, not devoid and lonely.
2. Make sure she has some sort of basic attraction to you. You will find this out if she tries to make body contact with you. Always look at a woman's body language; flipping her hair, leaning in towards you, staring at your lips, or touching your arm or leg are all good signs that she's into you.
3. Make sure she has a good time whenever she's with you. This is easier than it sounds; just keep things light and positive.
4. Get her number and spend 10 minutes on the phone with her and make small talk, and ask her out. Say, "Hey, come over to my house and we'll watch that movie you like".
5. When it's time for her to go home, stare deep into her eyes and say, "Whoa, your hair is so soft," and stare at her lips and back into her eyes. If she's still staring at you then go in and kiss her, no questions asked. If she looks away, say, "Alright, thanks for the good time, take care."
6. If things don't go so well, that's cool. There are other girls out there. She may seem like "the one", but there are many others that will make you feel the same way.
7. Try and touch her leg or arm. If she lets you, that's good. If she says something about it then back off and slow down a little. Don't push too hard; just a light touch. ask her what she likes to do. go to a movie with her.

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Unknown said...

Hold a hand or ask her if it is ok to hold a hand of her.

This is the easiest way to know if she is really interested in you or if she really has a feeling for you. Japanese women will not really tell you in words or act like she really likes you even though she has a feeling for you. Like I said before, we are traditionally taught that we should not show emotion so openly in public even within the family. I am still in that way also and a lot of Japanese still do not show emotion like Western people do.

You do not want to do this in the beginning of the first date but try this in the middle of the first date with her. If she is interested in you, she will not mind holding a hand with you and you can get a lot closer with her quickly. Most Japanese women also like you as Western men take a lead of the relationship.

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